One day you’re going to see her holding hands with someone who took your chance. She won’t even notice you because she’s busy laughing at the stupid jokes he make. And it will burn your heart seeing that beautiful smile on her face and realizing that you’re not the reason. And then it will finally … More Always
J. It is still clear to me, everything that happened 3 months ago. February 20. Bonifacio Global City. Strange. Ego deserted me and I muddle about for sober words to explain this sudden, awakened fondness. I go about my hectic day distracted, trying to locate a proper drawer in which to confine this incomprehensible stirring. … More Hello, Stranger.
You do not want someone who does not want you. That hurts and that stings. And that is not what love is all about. Don’t sit around waiting for this person to want you. Reject anyone who doesn’t want you. They are not worth it. The first prerequisite for love is to be mutual. Otherwise it’s not okay. … More Mornings, Airports and Breakups
You remembered him. Right at that moment when the spoon, filled with steaming brown liquid , hit your lips. Rather, or more accurately, You realized You forgot about him first, and then only remembered him. … More A cup of coffee
And there you are, still single. I know. Your friends keep throwing you disdainful looks when you talk about how the used-to’s are still-do’s. Sometimes you feel like people are rolling their eyes behind your back. You don’t expect anyone to understand. After it ended, you had no one to run to. So the best … More When your Ex moves on from another Ex
Have you ever wonder if there are people in this world who have never fallen for someone who didn’t fall too? Those type of People who have never known unrequited love. Yes, the lucky ones. I know it’s rarer than your mom telling you that you are handsome or pretty, rarer than a trafficless Edsa … More Unrequited Love isn’t Always Bad
I always make it a point to ask my “in a relationship” friends this usual question: Me: Feeling mo ba siya na talaga? Yung pang for-evs type? The usual answer: Her: OO naman! The usual convo: Me: Paano mo nasabi yan? Her: “When you’ve met the one, you know you’ve met the one.” Me: Teka, … More The concept of finding THE ONE
In honor of NBA Madness, let’s talk about rebounds. Because that’s a basketball thing, right? Whatever. If basketball’s not really your cup of tea, you can always join the Lakers bandwagon so let’s all hope for Bryant’s speedy recovery from his left knee injury. Right bud? Now let’s talk about the “rebound” guy, kasi yun … More Pros and Cons of being the Rebound Guy
“Ay Kuya, wag niyo na po akong ihatid. Okay lang ako Sir!” Yan ang tinatawag kong 3 hit combo: KUYA-zoned, PO-zoned at SIR-zoned. Pero lahat yan ay nag ugat sa concepto na kinaayawan ng marami sating mga kalalakihan, ang friend zone. (SFX: Kaibigan lang pala… Kaibigan lang pala….) So basted ka, tropa lang ang tingin … More Friendzone: The benefits of being an Abangers
It’s a mystery to some, a puzzle for many. What is it with bad boys that women swoon over? I used to wonder about that a lot since most women I know end up with guys harboring the Johnny Depp look and the Charlie Sheen persona . They’re the type of guys who takes them … More Why women love Bad boys?